Should I Let My Dog Sleep in My Bed?

• Why Dogs Want to Sleep With You
• Benefits of Letting Your Dog in Bed
• Potential Downsides
• When It Might Not Be a Good Idea
• How to Make It Work
• FAQs

Why Dogs Want to Sleep With You

Dogs are pack animals, and sharing sleep space is instinctual. It’s about safety, warmth, and connection. Your scent, breath, and rhythm are soothing to your dog. In their eyes, sleeping close isn’t just acceptable — it’s ideal.

Benefits of Letting Your Dog in Bed

• Bonding: Sharing a bed can strengthen your emotional connection.
• Comfort: Both you and your dog may feel safer and more relaxed together.
• Warmth: Dogs are natural heaters — which can be lovely in winter.
• Routine: A consistent bedtime ritual supports a sense of calm and predictability for your dog.

If your dog already has a predictable evening routine, they’ll be more likely to settle quickly. Check out our post on why routine is important for dogs to understand how this fits into sleep habits.

Potential Downsides

• Sleep disturbance: Dogs can snore, move, or hog the covers.
• Allergies: If you're allergic to dander, sharing a bed may worsen symptoms.
• Hygiene: Muddy paws, shedding, or flea risk can be concerns — especially without proper grooming habits.
• Behavioural boundaries: In rare cases, bed-sharing may reinforce possessiveness or make separation anxiety worse.

When It Might Not Be a Good Idea

Some situations call for clearer boundaries. You may want to avoid bed-sharing if:

• Your dog shows guarding behaviour around the bed
• They struggle with separation anxiety
• They’re in heat or recovering from illness or surgery
• You’re a light sleeper or have medical needs requiring undisturbed rest

How to Make It Work

If you choose to co-sleep with your dog, a few strategies can help:

• Use a designated space: A blanket or small dog bed on your bed signals boundaries.
• Keep your dog clean: Regular grooming keeps dirt and allergens in check.
• Ensure they’re calm before bed: Evening walks, enrichment toys, or calming routines help.
• Keep an alternative bed nearby: For times when you need your space.

FAQs

Is it bad to let my dog sleep in my bed?

Not at all — as long as it works for both of you. It’s a personal decision, and for many dog parents, it strengthens the bond.

Does sleeping in bed with my dog make them think they’re in charge?

No, not inherently. Leadership is about consistency and clear boundaries, not sleeping arrangements. However, dogs with guarding issues may need firmer structure.

How do I stop my dog from sleeping in my bed?

Provide a cosy, appealing alternative and reinforce it with treats and calm praise. Gradually transition them with consistency — never punishment.

What if my dog gets restless at night?

Rule out discomfort, excess energy, or anxiety. A solid bedtime routine, appropriate exercise, and training often help.

Is it okay to sometimes let my dog in bed, but not always?

Yes, but dogs thrive on predictability. If it’s inconsistent, be mindful — some dogs may become confused or pushy without clear signals.