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• They Make Eye Contact
• They Stay Close to You
• They Show Their Belly
• They Listen to Your Voice
• They Seek Comfort From You
• FAQs

They Make Eye Contact

In the dog world, direct eye contact can be a sign of threat — so when your dog holds soft, relaxed eye contact with you, it's a powerful show of trust. They're not just looking — they’re connecting. This moment can release oxytocin, the bonding hormone, in both of you.

They Stay Close to You

If your dog naturally follows you from room to room, or chooses to lie nearby without being called, it’s a strong indicator of attachment and security. They feel safe in your presence and want to be near their trusted person.

They Show Their Belly

Exposing the belly is one of the most vulnerable things a dog can do. When they roll over in your presence, it shows they feel secure and unthreatened. While not every belly-up pose is an invitation to rub, it's always a vote of confidence in your relationship.

They Listen to Your Voice

Dogs that trust you will attune themselves to your tone, respond to your cues, and even calm down when you speak gently. If your dog perks up when you call their name or relaxes when you say “it’s okay,” trust is at play.

You can build on this connection with training tools and consistent language. Explore more in our post on Best Commands to Teach Your Dog.

They Seek Comfort From You

When your dog is stressed, afraid, or uncertain, do they come to you? Seeking your reassurance in moments of vulnerability is a clear sign they believe you’ll protect them. Trust isn’t just about play — it’s about knowing you’re a safe space.

FAQs

How long does it take for a dog to trust you?

It depends on the dog’s background and personality. Some dogs bond within days, others take weeks or months. Patience and consistency build lasting trust.

What are subtle signs of trust?

Soft eye contact, gentle tail wags, leaning into you, and choosing to rest nearby are all quiet but powerful signs of trust.

Can a dog love someone but not trust them?

Yes. A dog may be attached but still feel anxious or uncertain around someone. True trust includes feeling safe, not just excited.

How can I build more trust with my dog?

Be calm, consistent, and gentle. Use positive reinforcement, maintain a predictable routine, and always meet their needs with empathy.

Do rescue dogs take longer to trust?

Often, yes. Rescue dogs may come with trauma or fear. But with time, patience, and love, they can build a deep and loyal bond.